[then, after actually writing down each of those book titles, because -- he's thinking about the book the library had given him, about the two versions of himself, the smart and the strong, the clever and the brave. he thinks about how every time he's felt brave, there's been anger in it. he thinks about the potential of that poisoning everything he's built and it makes his stomach twist, and reading about something other than nautical history might help.]
I think you should give yourself a lot more credit than you do, Bob. And that's not me being people-pleasing, because I genuinely do not think some of the people we've mentioned in this conversation know what a self-help book is. Or can read.
It means something that you want to get better. I think that's the problem with a lot of people here. And maybe with me. I want to believe everyone can, but I can't make them want it too.
not every time i can’t figure out why it does or doesn’t happen
[ a longer pause, then, before he replies to the rest. ]
i wasn’t supposed to be the guy who got the powers. i was supposed to be the lab rat who didn’t make it, so they could give the perfect version of what i have to the perfect guy.
so i think i think it’s my responsibility to make myself as good i can be, even if i can’t ever be that person thanks for seeing that i’m trying, anyway
It wasn't my choice. It just sort of happened, so I've just sort of made the best of things.
[also fond, understanding -- commiserating, perhaps. koby's had time to adjust to his powers, tries to use them for good, but the fact remains: it's exhausting.]
That sounds terrible. And Scary. It sounds scary.
[reading between the lines makes koby's stomach lurch -- the idea of a lab rat, of someone like bob being a sacrifice in the name of power.]
I don't think most people would think it was their responsibility. I mean A lot of people who get power like that think it means they're allowed to do whatever they want. To anyone they want.
Thank you. I think them fairly often, I just usually write them down somewhere so I can read them when I'm mad.
well, i tried that for like five minutes but it didn't work out so good
[ VOID CITY, BABY. ]
that's a good idea did you go to astarion's movie night? tom hanks says in that one he hates that he always knows the mean thing to say. i think he's probably onto something.
[ as the guy who often says the exact wrong thing to get a rise out of someone. a compromise, maybe, given his interest in koby's uncensored thoughts. ]
Oh. Is that better or worse? I mean, you don't need to answer that, but For me I think it'd be worse.
[the not knowing, the gaps in memory. koby remembers everything, in sterling, stark contrast, technicolor etched into his mind. that's its own sort of torment.]
It's hard to tell when you're joking or when you're just downplaying something in that way you have. Either way, though, for what it's worth, I think you're doing a good job now. Trying, I mean. There are a lot of people here who don't try at all.
I did, yes, I was Lincoln's chaperone until she left to go somewhere with Shadowhen. But that's how it feels. I could say horrible things or make horrible accusations, ones that aren't true but Feel true. But I can't handle the outcome, so I don't. I thought that was what being kind was, but maybe I was wrong. Maybe its just me being a coward again.
They do all right. Some people seem to like that, actually.
[sweeping, snide judgement of everyone who knows full well about the murder and the crash-outs and the asshole behavior and yet: persists. koby counts himself among that, unfortunately.]
When you say it like THAT, Bob, it almost sounds like something I could manage. You'll end up writing a book of your own. "How To Not Be A Total Pushover All The Time". Or something like that. Might need more workshopping.
[ emoji added for his benefit re: identifying this as teasing. he was outed as canoodling and NOT doing hole stuff with the president who sucks, after all. ]
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I think you should give yourself a lot more credit than you do, Bob.
And that's not me being people-pleasing, because I genuinely do not think some of the people we've mentioned in this conversation know what a self-help book is.
Or can read.
It means something that you want to get better.
I think that's the problem with a lot of people here.
And maybe with me. I want to believe everyone can, but I can't make them want it too.
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[ fond. understanding. ]
not every time
i can’t figure out why it does or doesn’t happen
[ a longer pause, then, before he replies to the rest. ]
i wasn’t supposed to be the guy who got the powers. i was supposed to be the lab rat who didn’t make it, so they could give the perfect version of what i have to the perfect guy.
so i think
i think it’s my responsibility to make myself as good i can be, even if i can’t ever be that person
thanks for seeing that i’m trying, anyway
good burn by the way :)
[ bitching IS healthy. ]
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[also fond, understanding -- commiserating, perhaps. koby's had time to adjust to his powers, tries to use them for good, but the fact remains: it's exhausting.]
That sounds terrible. And
Scary. It sounds scary.
[reading between the lines makes koby's stomach lurch -- the idea of a lab rat, of someone like bob being a sacrifice in the name of power.]
I don't think most people would think it was their responsibility. I mean
A lot of people who get power like that think it means they're allowed to do whatever they want.
To anyone they want.
Thank you. I think them fairly often, I just usually write them down somewhere so I can read them when I'm mad.
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[ or he didn't, until the other night. ]
well, i tried that for like five minutes
but it didn't work out so good
[ VOID CITY, BABY. ]
that's a good idea
did you go to astarion's movie night?
tom hanks says in that one he hates that he always knows the mean thing to say. i think he's probably onto something.
[ as the guy who often says the exact wrong thing to get a rise out of someone. a compromise, maybe, given his interest in koby's uncensored thoughts. ]
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I mean, you don't need to answer that, but
For me I think it'd be worse.
[the not knowing, the gaps in memory. koby remembers everything, in sterling, stark contrast, technicolor etched into his mind. that's its own sort of torment.]
It's hard to tell when you're joking or when you're just downplaying something in that way you have.
Either way, though, for what it's worth, I think you're doing a good job now.
Trying, I mean. There are a lot of people here who don't try at all.
I did, yes, I was Lincoln's chaperone until she left to go somewhere with Shadowhen.
But that's how it feels. I could say horrible things or make horrible accusations, ones that aren't true but
Feel true.
But I can't handle the outcome, so I don't.
I thought that was what being kind was, but maybe I was wrong.
Maybe its just me being a coward again.
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i don't think you need to be a dick 24/7
it's pretty obvious that doesn't work
[ for embry, stephen, so on. ]
but i don't think standing up for yourself and your friends, or calling out people's bullshit, is a bad thing either
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They do all right. Some people seem to like that, actually.
[sweeping, snide judgement of everyone who knows full well about the murder and the crash-outs and the asshole behavior and yet: persists. koby counts himself among that, unfortunately.]
When you say it like THAT, Bob, it almost sounds like something I could manage.
You'll end up writing a book of your own. "How To Not Be A Total Pushover All The Time".
Or something like that. Might need more workshopping.
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😊
[ emoji added for his benefit re: identifying this as teasing. he was outed as canoodling and NOT doing hole stuff with the president who sucks, after all. ]
maybe we can figure it out together
🎀
[created a monster here, bobby.]
All right, it's a deal.